How to Talk to a Child About Death and Grief (Ages 5–10)

Child having a calm conversation with an adult about death and grief

Talking to a child about death and grief can feel very difficult for adults. Many parents, carers, and teachers worry about saying the wrong thing or causing more upset. However, children aged 5–10 often cope better when adults use calm, honest, and age-appropriate language. When death is avoided or explained […]

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How to Help a Child Cope with the Death of a Pet (Ages 5–10)

Child receiving gentle support after the death of a pet

Many children form deep emotional bonds with pets. For a child aged 5–10, the death of a pet may be one of the first experiences of grief and loss. This can feel confusing, upsetting, and difficult to understand. Some children may cry openly, while others may seem quiet, withdrawn, or […]

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Teaching Children the Difference Between Surprises and Secrets (Ages 5–10)

teacher explaining surprises vs secrets to children

Children often hear the words surprises and secrets, but they may not always understand the difference between them. While surprises are usually fun and temporary, secrets can sometimes make children feel confused or uncomfortable. Teaching children the difference between surprises and secrets helps them understand when something is harmless and […]

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How to Help Children Understand Trusted Adults (Ages 5–10)

teacher explaining trusted adults to children

Children need to know that there are safe adults they can talk to when they feel worried, confused, or unsafe. Understanding trusted adults helps children feel supported and confident when they need help. Children aged 5–10 are still learning how to recognise who they can rely on in difficult situations. […]

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What to Do When a Child Says Something Feels Wrong (Ages 5–10)

child telling a teacher that something feels wrong

Children sometimes struggle to explain their feelings clearly. Instead of describing exactly what happened, a child may simply say that something feels wrong. When a child says something feels wrong, it is important that adults listen carefully and take their words seriously. Children aged 5–10 are still developing the language […]

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How to Teach Children About Safe and Unsafe Secrets (Ages 5–10)

children learning the difference between safe and unsafe secrets with a teacher

Children sometimes enjoy surprises and secrets, especially when something exciting is being planned. However, it is important for children to understand the difference between safe secrets and unsafe secrets. Helping children understand safe and unsafe secrets is an important part of personal safety education. When children know that some secrets […]

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Helping Children Manage Big Feelings in a Digital World (Ages 5–10)

Helping children manage emotions in a digital world

Children today are growing up in a digital world filled with devices, online videos, games, and constant streams of information. Helping children manage big feelings in a digital world is becoming an important part of healthy development. While technology can offer opportunities for learning and connection, it can also introduce […]

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